The Dynamics Marriage Readiness of Muslim Adolescent from the Perspective of Psychology and Islamic Law

Eka Sufartianinsih Jafar, Andi Yaqub

Abstract


The high rate of divorce in young couples is motivated by psychological and spiritual unpreparedness. Premarital education is a resolution to minimize the divorce rate. This study aims to hack the knowledge and understanding of Muslim adolescents regarding marriage and marriage readiness from a psychology and Islamic law perspective. This type of research uses a descriptive quantitative data collection method using a survey in the form of a questionnaire. The research subjects were 820 adolescents aged 15-20 years who came from various levels of education, namely senior high school students (54.5%) and undergraduate students (45.5%). The results of this study indicate that there are several motivations for marriage for Muslim adolescents, namely (1) wanting to justify themselves by 49% (2) wanting to get attention and affection by 20.5%, (3) wanting to have children by 15.6%, (4) improve the economy by 10%, (5) follow parents wishes 4.9%. While the things that teenagers need to prepare for marriage are (1) Economy by 31.9%, (2) Studying Religion by 29.4%, (3) Education by 20.7%, and (4) Improving Character 18%. Adolescent understanding is still low on the purpose of marriage and the forms of marriage readiness. Indicated by the orientation and motivation of marriage is dominated by the fulfillment of biological and material needs. The implication of this research is to be able to provide a comprehensive view in terms of marriage readiness from the point of view of psychology and Islamic law as reference material for providing premarital preparation/premarital education to adolescents so that they can prepare for married life.

Keywords


Adolescent, Islamic Law, Marriage, Premarital, Psychology

Full Text:

PDF

References


Books

Hurlock, Elizabeth B. Psikologi Perkembangan. Jakarta: Erlangga, 1980.

Journal

Carroll, J. S., S. Badger, B. J. Willoughby, and ... “Ready Or Not? Criteria For Marriage Readiness Among Emerging Adults.” Journal of … (2009). https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/abs/10.1177/0743558409334253.

Diab, Ashadi L. “Legalisasi Nikah Sirri Melalui Isbat Nikah Perspektif Fikih (Telaah Terhadap Kompilasi Hukum Islam).” Al-’Adl 11, no. 2 (2018): 36–61.

Holman, Thomas B, and Bing Dao Li. “Premarital Factors Influencing Perceived Readiness For Marriage.” Journal of Family Issues 18, no. 2 (1997): 124–144.

Olson, David H, and John DeFrain. Marriages And Families: Intimacy, Diversity, And Strengths. McGraw-Hill US Higher Ed USE, 2013.

Putri, Alifia Fernanda. “Pentingnya Orang Dewasa Awal Menyelesaikan Tugas Perkembangannya.” SCHOULID: Indonesian Journal of School Counseling 3, no. 2 (June 21, 2018): 35.

Saputro, Khamim Zarkasih. “Memahami Ciri Dan Tugas Perkembangan Masa Remaja.” Aplikasia: Jurnal Aplikasi Ilmu-ilmu Agama 17, no. 1 (February 9, 2018): 25–32.

Sari, Yunita, Andhita Nurul Khasanah, and Sarah Sartika. “Studi Mengenai Kesiapan Menikah Pada Muslim Dewasa Muda.” Prosiding SNaPP: Kesehatan (Kedokteran, Kebidanan, Keperawatan, Farmasi, Psikologi) 2, no. 1 (2016): 193–204.

Yaqub, Andi, Iswandi Iswandi, and Jabal Nur. “Reconstruction of Sakīnah Family Criteria During the Covid-19 Period.” Al-Ahkam 31, no. 1 (April 29, 2021): 1–24.

Internet

BKKBN, Siaran Pers. “Kesehatan Reproduksi Dan Pernikahan Dini.” BKKBN, December 8, 2019. https://www.bkkbn.go.id/detailpost/kesehatan-reproduksi-dan-nikah-dini.

Indonesia, CNN. “Catatan Kemenag: Rata-Rata 300 Ribu Perceraian Tiap Tahun.” CNN Indonesia, n.d. Accessed March 3, 2021. https://www.cnnindonesia.com/nasional/20201218113251-20-583771/catatan-kemenag-rata-rata-300-ribu-perceraian-tiap-tahun.

Indonesia, Media. “Guru Besar IPB: Setiap 1 Jam, Terdapat 50 Kasus Perceraian Di Indonesia.” Media Indonesia. Jakarta, April 7, 2021, Humaniora edition. Accessed April 7, 2021. https://mediaindonesia.com/humaniora/416363/guru-besar-ipb-setiap-1-jam-terdapat-50-kasus-perceraian-di-indonesia.

Jahja, Y. Psikologi Perkembangan. Kencana, n.d. https://books.google.co.id/books?id=5KRPDwAAQBAJ.

Santrock, J.W., C.J. Mondloch, and A. Mackenzie-Thompson. Essentials of Life-Span Development. McGraw-Hill Education, 2020. https://books.google.co.id/books?id=MXiJzgEACAAJ.




DOI: http://dx.doi.org/10.31332/aladl.v14i2.2954

Refbacks

  • There are currently no refbacks.


Copyright (c) 2021 Eka Sufartianinsih Jafar, Andi Yaqub

INDEXED:

  download

image20 g58 g927

Organized by : Fakultas Syariah
Published by : Institut Agama Islam Negeri (IAIN) Kendari
Jl. Sultan Qaimuddin No. 17, Kec. Baruga, Kota Kendari, Provinsi Sulawesi Tenggara
phone. +62401-3193710
Fax. +62401-3193710
Email: aladljurnal@gmail.com

Creative Commons License
All publications by Al-'Adl This work is licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution-NonCommercial 4.0 International License.