Peminggiran Perempuan dalam Pernikahan (Kasus Nikah Sirri dan Nikah Usia Dini)

Muhammad Gazali Rahman

Abstract


Sirri clearly has no legal power, each husband and wife do not have Deed
of Marriage, the government in this case Office of Religious Affairs (for the Muslims) do not give them Quotation Deed of Marriage as a handle and evidence has been conducted legitimate marriage. Negative impact for woman (wife) if in the journey of fostering household happening disharmony, disputes, quarrel until happened domestic violence (KDRT), a wife feel tortured and depressed live with her husband, whereas during marriage husband and wife already have joint property Controlled by her husband, a woman as a wife would not be able to claim her rights by filing a lawsuit in the Religious Courts for not having legitimate proof of her marriage. Similarly, with an early age marriage, which is one partner, both men and women are not old enough or under age, then the marriage that looked "forced" it could be. It could have a negative impact on both parties (male and female). Although it is casuistic, it is women who are generally more likely to feel the impact. With early marriage, access for women to continue their education to a higher level will be dashed, as well as the enormous chances of domestic violence that affects more women due to immaturity in addressing household problems.

Keywords


Marginalization, Marriage Sirri, Early Age.

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